~it's about time~

Being the eldest in my family..i grow up thinking that "one should never be forced to do what one does not want to do".

until one day, i realise that sometimes we should be forced to do what we do not want to do, and to make it sounds better, people will say "it's for your own good".hm..sometimes we never know something bad is gonna happen until we see the consequences ourselves. but what is the point? the bad thing already happened rite? and people will say "i've told you earlier".

i think it's the time to actually listen to what others are trying to say, do not take it as a command, but rather take it as an advice from the one who cares about you.maybe it's about time to grow up..